EXCLUSIVE: Will & Grace star Debra Messing opens up concerning the terrifying second a STALKER confirmed up at her New York house and tried to get inside to see her and her SON

Debra Messing has opened up concerning the terrifying second when a male stalker tried to interrupt into her New York house, claiming he had been invited to spend the day along with her and her baby.

The 54-year-old Will & Grace star defined how the incident scared her in a “completely different way” because the stalker had talked about her son when he tried to get in.

Debra recalled the incident on an episode of Trinny Woodall’s new podcast Fearlessby which she spoke candidly about affected by “severe anxiety” and having a panic assault whereas strolling by Times Square in Manhattan.

At one level throughout their dialog, 59-year-old Trinny requested her, “I want you to be very specific with me, what was the exact moment you were most scared in your life?”

Debra paused to take a deep breath and replied, “I think it was when I found out I had a stalker in New York and the police came because this guy showed up at my doorman’s house and he said I invited him and he was spending the day with me and Roman… he was referring to my son.

Scary time: Will & Grace actress Debra Messing has opened up about the time a male stalker tried to enter her New York home

Speaking out: Debra admitted that the incident scared her in a ‘completely different way’ because the stalker had called her son Roman

Candid chat: Debra recalled the incident on an episode of Trinny Woodall’s new podcast called Fearless

“And that scared me in a completely different way, because there was no one-on-one interaction with this person.”

Debra hasn’t confirmed precisely when the incident occurred, or how outdated her son was on the time, however he’s now 19 years outdated and lately left house to attend faculty.

She continued to confide in the Trinny London founder and revealed, “When you first asked (about my fear), I would have said Times Square… Being in Times Square and having to walk through it with people pressed against my body.

“I felt so scared and I had a panic attack and I started sweating and by the time I got through it I got into my caravan and my hands were physically shaking.

And it was all in my head because there was no actual threat, it was just a conglomeration of all the memories I’ve had of being in crowds when I was touched or someone jumped on me to hug me from behind, and they have withdrawn my backpack and then things like that happened.

“But nothing actually happened, but I just felt like, ‘I can’t be here.’ And just two weeks ago I was walking through Times Square on my own and I had that moment in my head where I thought, “Good girl, good girl Debra, you did it.”

Then she revealed, “I got half way through and someone recognized me, someone whose daughter was screaming and they started walking fast towards me, and my breathing changed and I started walking fast and I just yelled back, ‘Thank you, but I have to going to a play,” to allow them to know I don’t need any interplay.

“But by the time I got to the play, I felt like that was a win,” Debra added, earlier than opening up about coping with “serious anxiety” that stemmed from her childhood.

To be honest: The 54-year-old actress spoke of affected by “severe anxiety” when she was youthful

Family picture: The actress confirmed that her son is now 19 and has moved out and gone to school

TV success: Debra was very a lot within the highlight due to her position within the in style sitcom Will & Grace

“What I carried with me most of my life was anxiety, like severe anxiety, physical anxiety that would make me tired all the time. I just thought I had a fragile immune system and I didn’t have stamina, but since the work I’m doing I feel like I can handle my fears much better and I feel, as a result, I have more stamina,” added Debra as much as it.

She went on to elucidate how filming the 2007 movie Lucky You, which additionally stars Drew Barrymore and Eric Bana, was the “turning point” for her “in terms of standing up for herself” and never caring what individuals considered her .

“My people were gratifying in that moment — for the first time, I was able to sublimate it and say, ‘You know what, I don’t care. This is wrong. I’m leaving,’” Debra revealed.

“It was later on where I felt I was validated by the industry. So I felt like I was accepted and considered viable and I think that allowed me to stand up for myself in a way that I hadn’t done for a decade before.”

Now that I’m in my 50s I actually don’t care, and I’m sorry to say that a few of it comes with age. I don’t assume at 25 there could be any manner I may go to a spot the place I didn’t care what individuals considered me, as a result of in your twenties you’re nonetheless discovering who you might be and what your goal in life is.”